You tell me, did ESPN Sportscaster Brent Musburger’s comments, during last Monday’s Alabama v. Notre Dame Football game, about the QB’s girlfriend, Miss Alabama’s Katherine Webb, place a value on women? Objectify women?
Brent Musburger said, “you see that lovely lady there? She does go to Auburn, I’ll admit that, but she’s also Miss Alabama, and that’s A.J. McCarron’s girlfriend. Wow, I’m telling ya, you quarterbacks, you get all the good-looking women. What a beautiful woman! Whoa! So if you’re a youngster in Alabama, start getting the football out and throw it around the backyard with pops.”
CNN contributor, Dean Obeidallah, along with many others immediately dismissed Musburger’s comments as “playful” or otherwise, and they wonder why the “instant outrage”.
Are women possessions? Do men, young men or football players “get” women?
Although Mr. Obeidallah, a former attorney, did identify the problem (and the reason for the outrage) when he said, “The only criticism that’s arguably fair is Musburger’s implication that if you are great quarterback, you will have earned a beautiful woman– a reward, more than a human being. If that had been Musburger’s intention, that, of course, would have been wrong.”, he also doesn’t realize the damage. When you use words like “get” or earned” in reference to women, there is no implication or confusion as to what is meant. We all immediately understood the “implication”, as evidenced by the instant outrage. (Read his full article here)
When you place a value on or objectify any woman, you devalue all women. And, when women are devalued, women are fired for being “too attractive”, paid less, denied access to health care, lawful abortions, forced to submit to invasive vaginal probes, forced genital mutilation, forced into prostitution, trafficked for sex, beaten by their partners, raped and, gang raped, allegedly, in Steubenville Ohio and New Delhi India. (Read my prior article here)
I can tell you, as a former domestic violence prosecutor, the words and implications do matter.
And, gentlemen, hats off, for, unknowingly, opening up the discussion and shining the light on how women are valued, or, not valued.
Simply my opinion, what say you?